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Sunday, August 10, 2008

oh. here again. this is probably one of my freeist weekend of the year. only have tuition. i am suppose to go to my grandma house today. but ok la next week. i need to pack my cupboard. hopefully. realise tuition is a bit hard sometimes. especially when you cannot balance the expecations of the parent and the student. sometimes, i seriously think parents should find out what their children want. too much stress...can be a very bad thing.

i don't know what is wrong with people younger than me. well. not all of course. probably i really cannot get into their world or something. it goes to show that the older you are, the more you can see. i can't see where my long term goals are because i don't have the abilities to think that far yet. what i can see right now is that i need to learn to be more independent so that i will be able to take care of the others. if i can't even fend for myself, how can i even make others happy?
though i admit i do get influenced by my own emotions when i see people feeling down.

what would you do if you meet a friend one day and when you find that he/she is quite different from other days?
you would...
(a) ask directly why he/she looks as if he/she is going to die tomorrow.
(b) keep quiet and pretend that nothing happens.
(c) try to cheer him/her up by talking craps
(d) talk about your own sad stories so that he/she would feel better.

i guess all of us have tried all these above responses right.
you realise that after using all of them, none works.
but the best way is definitely (b). Just wait and see. Because you are never sure what will happen next. so, just keep quiet. i guess everyone has their problems to face everyday. well.
whether you want it to carry it with yourself or leave it behind. that is really up to you. or better, solve it. well, but some are never meant and will be solved...

here is a pyschological test i found from a blog...
you can try it out!

巴士上，鄰座睡著的人把頭靠在你肩上，你會怎麼辦呢？
Ａ、忍耐
Ｂ、用肩膀推回去
Ｃ、離開座位
Ｄ、不會覺得不快也不加以理睬


Ａ：受到外來攻擊卻內心忍耐的被動性格，故你的壓抑度相當高。在戀愛方面，即使知道對方不能善待自己，但從開始交往就無法自拔了，在這種情況下，壓抑程度會如雪球般滾大。

Ｂ、用肩膀推回去Ｂ：用肩膀推回去　雖會反抗但並不能獲得成功，仍是無法擺脫壓抑的消極性格，戀愛時不能清楚說出對對方不滿之處，所以你是經常會壓抑自己的人。

Ｃ、離開座位Ｃ：為了排除壓抑，採取逃避的態度，你能夠很有要領的從壓抑中逃脫，但是到達極限時，便只有退縮而束手無策，即使想和對方分手也不會清楚的表達，只好選擇讓感情自然的轉淡。


Ｄ、不會覺得不快也不加以理睬Ｄ：並不會去排除壓抑，也不會逃避，而是以事不關己的態度去加以克服，故你屬於硬幹型的人。如果被男友拋棄，外表看起來堅強不在乎，但其內心卻已破碎。如果你喜歡的她是這種性格的人，不妨多關心她吧！

Sweet-ed <3
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